Saturday, May 29, 2010

End of This Life

I am with my mother again who fell and went to the hospital. This time everybody is here: Billy, Bridget, Rachel, Cassie, and Janet. Janet and I have been here several hours and she has not opened her eyes. Yet, I don't think she is really sleeping. She is still fighting. She moans and thrashes about some. I think she is hurting or uncomfortable.

Later...
The nurses figured out how to help her be more comfortable. Now she is sleeping and her breathing is better. I don't think she'll be here too much longer. I am now hoping that God will take her soon. The doctor came in and said something that made me think. He said sometimes the spirit is ready, but the body fights on. I was thinking that it was the opposite. Maybe he is right. Maybe her spirit wants to go now, but her body is still fighting.

It is good to be with my sister and brother and their kids. They are such wonderful young girls. Wow, my sister and brother did a nice job raising them.

I get to go home tomorrow to Bob and the guys. I miss my hubbie, Essi, and Otto,
Sue

2 comments:

Gardini said...

Not much I can add to that. The biggest comfort that a son or daughter can have, is to be there to support the parents when they are fading. By this time, the parent may be unaware, but the survivors comfort one another, just by being there. You have done that, and supporting your sister and brother is what families do.
There is a sense of relief that overshadows grief. You are doing good stuff...hang in !
Gardini

Sue Saari said...

Thanks, Ron. Bob and I are lucky to have such a good friend as you are.